November 30, 2010

SOULMATE

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"A soulmate is a person with whom one has a feeling of deep and natural affinity, love, intimacy, sexuality, spirituality, and/or compatibility. The one and only other half of one's soul, for which all souls are driven to find and join."

When Carrie asked Mr Big if he believed in soulmates on the very first season of Sex and the City, he had no trouble answering her "I like the word soul, I like the word mate, so yeah, I guess I believe in soulmates."
Last two and a half months, every Monday, I wake up craving for the last episode of Dexter which went on air the day before in the U.S. Thank God for the caring souls who get the trouble of sharing it with the rest of us, unfortunate people, who live across the ocean unable to watch live each bloody Dexter's episode. Literally. I'm a huge huge fan and I'm not ashamed of saying out loud that I could fall in love for a creature like him in a heart bit. That's how damaged I am!
Not to forget the fact that he is cute, looks great shirtless, is strong and kills the bad guys. For a broken soul like him it can't be easy to connect with anyone and be open to a significant other. I've never cared for any of the previous Dexter's relationships, two to be more precise, no wonder they ended in tragedy.

This season, he found Lumen. And Lumen found him. That's how it happens... when you least expect you find someone as fucked up as you are. My heart is racing every Monday when I'm watching those two discovering how they complete each other in their own twisted way. Yesterday they finally surrendered themselves to one another after a successful kill... it was most expected. Very erotic. In a twisted way. So, do I believe in soulmates? Well... I like the word soul, I like the word mate... I guess I do believe in soulmates. Do I believe we have in our lives more than one person with whom we have a feeling of deep and natural affinity? Absofuckinlotely!